BETTER DATING
Trauma-Informed & Somatic-Based Coaching. For Those Who Want to Fall in Love with Dating (the Inevitable Process Toward Deepening Relationships).
Welcome! I'm Rahel...
Welcome! I'm Rahel
...certified Relationship, Love & Sexuality coach specializing in Dating.The methodology I'm trained in is somatic-based and trauma-informed. I don't believe in one-size-fits-all answers, especially when it comes to relationships (and dating, being a form of relating).
I'm not here to give you advice; instead, I see my role as guiding you to discover your own answers—ones that align with your values, consider your history, and respect your innate desires. These inner truths and guidance can only be understood and accessed when we question our rational conditioning and look beneath it, taking into account all layers of our being - including our body, emotions, feelings, and 'soul.'
When we access the truth of our desires and integrate past wounds, fears, and blockages toward fulfilling them, we can start to fall in love with ourselves and with the process of dating.
Whereas before, dating may have felt draining and uncomfortable, the steps toward creating deep, intimate connections with others become enjoyable. Are you ready?
above: by Pride Pursey Photography
Photo: Pride Pursey Photos
My Philosophy
This is what I believe about Dating.
Better dating = better in relationships. If we can shift our focus a bit away* from "I need to know if s/he is 'the One'!" and take dating as a practice to become the creators of love that we wish to attract in the outside, in the form of a partner... a lot of that urgency and also frustration or hopelessness which many feel around dating, melts away. Instead of finding "dating sucks!", it is possible to find joy in it: In the learnings, in the aliveness, the self-love, sense of self-worth and peace we get to cultivate if we work with the material that comes up. The journey is not necessarily easy, but I find definitely worth it. It just feels amazing to have a more and more loving & secure relationship to oneself - and have that increasingly reflected not only in romantic relationships, but all other areas in life...